Is it Time for Memory Care? Watch for These 5 Signs

We all have moments where we can’t remember something––whether it’s the name of an old acquaintance or where we left our keys. The older we get, the more often these moments seem to occur. This is a natural part of the aging process that usually isn’t a cause for concern. But memory loss that affects one’s ability to function day to day may require some form of memory care.

If your aging loved one is having more trouble with their memory lately, it’s time to pay closer attention to their behavior in case those memory lapses are a sign of a deeper problem. Below are a few key indicators that memory care intervention may be necessary.

1. Changes in Behavior

Has your loved one been acting differently lately? Maybe they have more trouble focusing on or understanding what you’re saying, or maybe they are saying things that are out of character. A significant shift in behavior or personality can indicate a form of dementia or cognitive decline. Consider these behavioral changes:

• Aloofness or social withdrawal
• Difficulty following conversations
• Showing a lack of social awareness (crude jokes, indelicate remarks)
• Increased irritability and mood swings
• Problems with short-term memory

2. Changes in Appearance & Hygiene

Everyone has the occasional bad hair day, but if your loved shows signs of reduced hygiene or poor grooming on a consistent basis, such as wearing the same outfit for days in a row or going long periods without bathing, there may be an underlying cognitive issue. Don’t ignore any noteable changes in their appearance or overall presentation.

3. Difficulty Managing Household or Financial Demands

Is your loved one making unusual purchases or forgetting to pay their bills? Is their house growing messier and messier by the day? An inability to maintain basic finances or keep order in the home can indicate memory loss and cognitive decline. Be sure to pay attention to your loved one’s financial habits and the condition of their home.

4. Safety Risks & Accidents

An increase in injuries, accidents, or dangerous behavior should always warrant some form of intervention, but in many cases, they indicate various forms of advancing dementia. If you see signs of injury, such as cuts or bruises, that your loved one can’t readily explain, there might be a developing problem. Also, watch out for unsafe habits, such as leaving the car running or forgetting to turn off the stove after cooking.

5. Caregiver Burnout

If you are already providing regular care and support to an aging loved one with cognitive decline or dementia, take a moment to consider how you are feeling. If your loved one’s needs are exceeding your abilities, then it may be time to consider specialized memory care options. This form of care will ensure that they (and you) receive adequate support for their well-being.

If you are seeing the above signs or experiencing caregiver burnout, don’t lose hope. There are numerous resources to help you and your loved one find help. Alzheimers.gov and dementiasociety.org provide a wealth of information and support for those affected by dementia.

And WE are here to help! Our facilities provide dedicated memory care units where residents can live their best, staying active, engaged, and connected.

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